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I still feel like I can't find the right words to express my feelings and thoughts after all what happened in Paris and all over the world.

Paris, known as the city of love, art and fashion.. a city which stands for freedom. A city with which we easily can identify ourselves with. The happening in Paris on Friday has shown that it's not only an attack against Paris but against the whole world and (because it's on media's focus more than Syria etc.) especially Europe.

In times like these it's so important to stay rational and aware! To recognize that what happened in Paris on Friday is just the tip of the iceberg but that there is so much more going on all over the world which isn't that much focused by media because it kind of becomes "normal". No, it's not and it never should be! To fight against this and to heal this wound of humanity, it takes so much more than prayers! The most important ways to handle all of this and not to get lost in chaos are intelligence, objectivity and awareness.

We have to be aware of what's happening right in front of us every day, we have to be objective to not be drowned, blinded and fooled in any way. Fear and terror is exactly what these monsters want us to feel because it leads us to irrational behaviors full of anger and hate and so it leads us to wrong decisions!

This should not control us, drown us or break us!

There is so much grief, anger, devastation, lost, mourn etc. where there should be love and happiness. ♥️

And even though so many people lost their lives and so many people lost their beloved ones, the best thing we can do is to stick together, unite and fight against all this terror. Fight with weapons that those monsters don't have: the weapons of love and unity! ♥️

We should do this every day and it shouldn't need such a happening to remind us of how important it is to spread the love but.. If you love somebody, tell them. If you miss someone, tell them. If you feel the need to see someone, tell them. Life is too short to miss out of love and not to say what we feel or think.
Spend some quality time with your beloved ones and remind yourself of what's really important in life. <3

xx Deborah Chloé

Hello there, lovelies!

So today I want to write about something I guess we all have experienced, wether you're a woman or a man: how hard it is to let go.
I texted my best friend a few thoughts on that and suddenly thought it's not only us who suffered with that. It's hard in general and we all might have experienced this with someone special. Maybe someone we still love, someone who crossed our paths and we can't forget about... Someone who didn't treat us well, not with a bad purpose but because he or she isn't able to do better. Even when we know that it's kind of utopian to have a future with this person, we still think about them with the depth of our heart.
So I decided to write the text I sent my bestie into a blog post because we all have to remember how awesome life is and how grateful we should be for the wonderful and beautiful person our parents have raised us to.

Let me know what you think or what you experienced so far in the comments below.

xx Deborah Chloé

Why is it that we tend to cling to the past? You know what came to my mind? We cling to the past but it's not (only) about the men we seem to cling on. No, it's all about us. We can't let go of our past because we feel attracted to those who reflect it.
So it's more about clinging to our fears and so called "weaknesses" than about the men, isn't it?

We want a relationship to work and we want them to think of us, to text/call us and to give us the feeling that we have a special place in their life. But why? So that we can relive experiences we made already again and again just for this one little glimpse of hope to that everything will get better? For a short moment of recognition and the feeling of being worth thinking of us, although we know that it's only a short moment before we're sitting next to our phones, getting nuts again. There is nothing worse than the feeling of not being wanted / "needed" or of being replaced like a toy or something. But keep in mind that every person who crosses your path leaves their foot print on your soul and so do you! You won't be forgotten just because he/she doesn't text you on a regular base. Even if you won't hear from them anymore, it's hard to forget about a person if you once shared an intense time together!
But what is it on which we cling on? I can say that (for me) it wasn't only about the men.
Life is so colourful and amazing and we drown it in a kind of grey in grey of lack of respect for ourselves, too much pain from our past and way not enough self-love! So those people of our past are nothing else than a reflection of who we THINK we are or what we deserve, aren't they?

But I knew what I had to deal with. That's the way he/she is ..

Yes, that's the way he/she is but you're so much more than that. You're more than a temporary match which one can enjoy whenever they feel like whether it's temporal or emotionally. You're so much more than that and you deserve so much more than that. I don't like the word "deserve" when it comes to relationships or love but it's hard to replace. The phrase "worth so much more" isn't any better because who says how much you're worth of? Come on... You simply are more than that! You're a wonderful and strong person and one should be happy to be able to spend time with you. One should have the intention to give you as much as you're able to give them. One should be looking forward of sharing all these beautiful feelings and moments with you and shouldn't feel like they need to. No one should need you. One should want to spend time with you and to put that smile on your lips whenever you see each other..

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